For decades, sexuality during pregnancy has been a territory shrouded in taboos. Between the fear of “harming the baby” and the discomfort of talking about the issue with the medical team, many couples opt for silence or total abstinence, even if there is no clinical reason to justify it.

The available evidence, however, paints a different picture: in uncomplicated pregnancies, sex is not only safe, but can provide physical and emotional benefits to both the pregnant woman and her partner.

An unfounded fear

The main concern of expectant mothers and fathers usually revolves around one question: can intercourse cause an abortion, premature birth, or harm the fetus? The answer, in pregnancies considered low risk, is no. The baby is protected by the amniotic fluid, the uterine wall and the mucous plug that seals the cervix, a natural barrier against infections and external agents.

The mild contractions that some people experience after orgasm – known as Braxton Hicks contractions – They are normal and do not equate to labor. They usually subside on their own after a few minutes.

There are, however, situations in which medical personnel do recommend avoiding sexual relations or orgasm, including:

Outside of these scenarios, the general recommendation from gynecologists and obstetricians is clear: sexual activity can continue throughout pregnancy, adapting to the needs and comfort of each person.

Benefits that few mention

Beyond the absence of risk, different studies on sexual and reproductive health have identified specific advantages associated with sexual activity during pregnancy:

Emotional well-being and couple bond. Pregnancy often brings with it mood swings, anxiety, and a redefinition of body identity. Physical intimacy can function as a space of connection that reduces stress and reinforces communication between both members of the couple in a period of great transformations.

Physical benefits. Increased pelvic blood flow during pregnancy can intensify genital sensitivity, leading many women to experience more intense orgasms or, in some cases, have them for the first time during this stage. In addition, sexual activity releases oxytocin and endorphins, hormones associated with well-being and pain reduction.

Better rest and less tension. Orgasm promotes muscle relaxation and can contribute to more restful sleep, something especially valuable in a period when rest is often affected by physical discomfort.

Preparation of the body for childbirth. Some studies suggest that semen contains prostaglandins, substances that could contribute to the softening of the cervix around the due date, although the scientific evidence in this regard is inconclusive and should not be interpreted as a method to induce labor.

Pleasure, the great silenced question

If the medical aspect raises doubts, the pleasure aspect is usually left directly out of the conversation. However, the subjective experience of desire and enjoyment during pregnancy is as real as it is changing.

In the first trimester, nausea, tiredness, and breast tenderness can reduce sexual desire. In the second trimester, many pregnant people report a notable increase in libido, associated with greater pelvic blood flow and the disappearance of initial discomfort. The third trimester, on the other hand, usually brings with it the challenge of finding comfortable positions in response to the growth of the abdomen.

Sexuality specialists recommend flexibility: explore alternative positions—such as the side or with the pregnant person on top—, prioritize communication over what is comfortable or uncomfortable at any given moment, and remember that penetration is not the only form of intimacy possible. Caressing, mutual masturbation or oral sex are equally valid alternatives when intercourse is not comfortable or is medically inadvisable.

Break the silence

Despite the available evidence, prenatal consultation rarely includes an open conversation about sexuality. Numerous medical and sexual health associations insist that this information gap fuels couples' anxiety and perpetuates myths without medical support.

The recommendation agrees among professionals: each pregnancy is different, and the best guide is an honest conversation between the couple and the medical team that carries out pregnancy monitoring. Asking without shame, getting information from reliable sources and listening to your own body are, ultimately, the keys to living this stage—also sexually—fully and safely.

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